There will be a time, a point of life that will occur on each and every one of us, the moment of courage, embarrassment you can say whatever moment it is but truly it is the moment of truth. The time when someone stood up and admitted his or her true feelings towards someone, the moment when ‘I love you’ is said. Before going any further, what does love mean? According to Wikipedia, love is any number of emotions that associated to a strong sense of affection and attachment. On the other hand, through the abstract’s point of view, love is actually a deep, indescribable feeling of compassionate towards others. In this world, there’s no such thing such as a person with no love in him. Love is not only restricted to the one that we like, caring for our family and friends is also actually love. Throughout the human civilization, we had been shown the power of love. There are different sides of love, light side of loveand even the dark side of it. From the story of the magnificent Taj Mahal , how loyal Shah Jehan towards his deceased wife, Mumtaz. Through the love play written by William Shakespeare the love between two families that are in a violent feud , Capulet and Montague family, the story of Romeo and Juliet. So as being , loves has it’s consequences and somehow the dark side of love prevail than the light side. There are several issues related to love and it is mostly linked with social problem. Human to human loves lead to social problem such as runaway from home, drug trafficking, murder and also crime and initiative should be done to prevent this predicament from happen.
It is a known fact or maybe a common thing to happen when two people are in love. They tend to live together without any bonds of relation or what they called as cohabit. For the sake of their true love they are willing to take the risk living together, follow their loved one blindly without long thought(Wikihow.com, Keith) This is a serious matter as when teenagers especially, are in love they are not in a rational mental state, the tend to follow their emotion instead of their thought. This predicament is no laughing matter as it involves the future, life does not entirely secure when we follow our loves. Does he able to support their life? Will he be loyal after few years of living together? This is the kind of question that they should ask themselves before deciding to cohabit, not after several fights and most severe impact when they both splitting up and try to return to the life that the have abandon in the past, for the sake of their false love. Then they will face major embarrassment, they have made a wrong decision and have to responsible for their mistake. For some people who cannot withstand the pressure, they might commit suicide for the final resort. This can be shown by how truthfully Juliet trusts Romeo, to pretend to be dead in order to live together with Romeo. This problem should be avoided rather than to be cured; there are many ways to overcome this predicament. S. Umadevi states that, parents should play an important role to monitor their child from the early age of their life. They should confine them so that their child does not fall to the hand of destruction. However, Nurezati Ghafar cited that, when child are being confine strictly, they desire for freedom. The freedom that they intend to have seems to be stronger after being hold by their parents. So for the first solution it is best for the parents to keep an eye on their child but not too strict as it can bring very bad consequent.
Next, one of the problems related with human to human love is to follow lovers to commit crime. As stated in Wikipedia.com/bonnieandclyde some couple have he tendency to indulge crime life. Girls especially at the range from 13 to 25 years old are more attracted to boys with the ‘bad boy’ attitude. It is because it shows their cool attitude which only brings them to fame just at school. But when we look at the adult stage, women who attracted to guys who involves in crime as they are more furious and brave compared to others. Women are willingly to follow the bad lifestyle as long as she is with her lover. This problem is simply degrading one’s morale value, let’s think about it. Do we really want to live a crime life? Life where risks are all over us and danger keep coming. When we become fugitives and that is the point of no turning back. So living in crime life does not have any benefit and it is only cost you sadness and despair. One of the examples of this bad situation is by the love story of Bonnie and Clyde. Bonnie Parker born on 1st October 1910 and Clyde Barrow born on 24 March 1909 were the well known outlaws, robbers and criminals. Barrow was a poor farmer son and stole to support his life. Unfortunately when he aged, his skill and credibility are at the highest level and on January 1930, Clyde and Bonnie first met and she attracted to the handsome Clyde for his bad boy attitude. Their love story do not end as happily ever after, they become fugitives, American Most Wanted and end up being shot to death at Bienville, Parish, Lousiana. We cannot let ‘Bonnie and Clyde’ incident to occur once more, initiative should be done to overcome it from happen. According to Angeline Subrayan , teachers should lead them to an ideal life. At the early age of human life, they spend most time at school, busy with assignment, event and others. Teachers, leader at school should teach and guide them. Whereas, Grace Regina states that friends play an important role in this matter. Student spends most of their time with their friends, having secret with their friends and many things with their friends. Choosing a wrong friend is literally same as choosing the wrong path of life. A good friend will advise his or her friend to success while the bad friends will degrade one’s reputation. So teacher and friend should cooperate to ensure this kind of problem does not occur. With the collaboration between these two sides, one’s will not fall or go to the wrong path of life by indulging crime life.
As a conclusion, love is not a bad thing to do and to experience. Love is very wonderful when we look on the bright side. How people willing to do for their love really show us the beauty of it. Unfortunately, when they are at the wrong track, they willing to do anything, things that seem to be so obsessive enough to be accepted by the society. Love leads to cohabitation, being accused of crime and also crime indulgence. We should prevent this matter in order to have a brighter future as the teenagers are the future leader who will lead mankind to success.
